I thought I’d make a pinned post since this blog is almost 15 years old and is a bit of a mess.

My name is Fin (they/them) 25+ 

I live in Canada and I love lighthouses and the ocean, I hate highway 401 with burning passion.

Art is my hobby, so I try to draw just for the fun of it. I usually join fandoms for a year or so, before rotating to smth else. Just so you know, this blog has like a wild mix of everything that accumulated over years. So you can navigate using TAGS.

I am currently into Naruto because I get back into it every 5 years or so, so I made a yaoi enclosure (just a side blog for naruto stuff to be cringe and free in peace)

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* (My day job schedule can get insane so if you are interested just shoot me a message, and I’ll let you know when I can be available. Some things I will not/cannot draw, like nsfw or potentially sensitive topics, just so you know.)

Lmfao as a religious trauma survivor and a product of Christian fundie indoctrination myself I am in full support of calling fandom wank "purity culture" and the use of the word "puriteen" as well actually.

It perfectly encompasses what purity culture was. It wasn't just about "no sex before marriage"; it policed every fucking thing you did and forced you to walk on eggshells your entire life so your Magical Sky Daddy didn't clutch His heavenly pearls at your naughty behaviours.

Holding hands with someone you weren't married to? Gateway to sin. Making eyes at someone of the opposite sex? Gateway to sin. Thinking "impure" thoughts about someone else? Thoughtcrime Gateway to sin. Wearing the "wrong" type of clothes? Listening to the "wrong" kind of music? Having the "wrong" sort of values? Enjoying the "wrong" kind of media? All of it was seen as a stepping stone toward being a sinful godless heathen (and to some people it was essentially just as bad).

And it wasn't enough to just avoid BadWrong Behaviours, either. In my ex-community you were expected to express your disapproval of it and be well versed in the theological how's and whys. Does any of that sound familiar?

Purity culture at its core is so much more than "wear this purity ring and pinky promise to Jesus that you'll never have sex until you're married" and if you didn't realise that while you were there you weren't paying attention.

#the perfect woman

Well, this would be interesting...

This will be amazing, though!

Just think about it:

We are in the era after it caused SO MUCH, and caused so many sites to put in blocks and other restrictions to stop it from scraping everything

If they are forced to wipe their entire dataset then they won't be able to get even a fraction of it back!

Not only that, but they would be forced to get permission of the owners for everything they use. Which would IMO, actually kill most of the issues with AI and actually make the technology into something actually useful.

You want a mint? Oh sorry that’s actually my mini koi pond

i said what i said

ever since the cdrama was announced ive been on a gsnk reread binge… i love horikashi so much… (also thank you @cashmoneychiyo for my life)

LIES ABOUT SEA CREATURES from ‘Bright Dead Things’ by Ada Limón